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* Some people ask if they can bring a friend with them to their reading. That is fine (and just know that some of the Spirits coming through may be for your friend, as the Spirits – not the Medium – determines who comes through). To ensure the Spirits are coming through for you, it may be helpful to attend on your own.
The meditation raises my vibration and I connect to a client prior to the reading then start to receive messages from spirits, usually one by one. I bring through more information from the spirits while we are meeting. A reading may include messages from one or more Spirits. I give the information to my client as the spirit gave it to me, and it often makes more sense as you make associations to what is coming through (sometimes this happens after the reading).
I use clairsentience primarily, as well as clairaudience, and clairvoyance. These terms refer to simply “knowing” the information, as well as hearing and seeing the information coming through. Sometimes a spirit will even make me smell something to get a message through to a client (for example, perfume, cigarette smoke or other odor…and my favorite smell to date from a spirit — that had recently passed — was blueberry muffins).
A medium receives messages for the client from those who have passed away, or crossed over. It’s common for mediums to describe themselves as psychic mediums since they have both sets of skills. In Kay’s readings, the spirits who have passed away are mostly relatives, however sometimes others come through, such as a friend or prior partner who has passed away. Even more rarely, a friend or acquaintance (for example, from grade or middle school) you didn’t even know passed away can come through to you during your reading. It’s seems unusual to contemplate, but if you (hypothetically) were already in spirit and you knew a friend or acquaintance was having a reading with a medium, you might want to come through during that reading, no matter what your association to them was! This hypothetical example may help you see why those beyond your close circle might come through in your reading (yet this is rare). Again, Kay’s readings mostly include relatives or close loved ones who are in spirit.